Domestic abuse frequently follows a cycle. The first step towards ending the cycle of violence is to comprehend it (and the elements that contribute to it). Domestic abuse typically follows a pattern or cycle of violence:
The White Ribbon Campaign aims to end the vicious cycle of domestic violence in which abusive people engage in aggressive, disrespectful, or violent behavior. This sets off a vicious cycle of abuse. Abuse is a technique to show dominance over you and let you know “who is boss.” He exhibits guilt after abusing because he fears getting caught and suffering the consequences of his abusive behaviour. The abuser will next attempt to justify his actions by making a variety of justifications or blaming the victim for his actions, all to escape responsibility. Domestic abuse frequently follows a cycle. The abuser then makes every effort to retake control and maintain the relationship with the victim. He can put on a fake smile or pretend to be happy. The victim could feel hopeful during this calm honeymoon period that the abuser has changed this time. The abuser then starts to dream about abusing the victim once more and looks for an opportunity to make his desire come true. You may be set up by him and he may be able to carry out his plan, which will allow him to abuse you without fear of retribution. It might be challenging to leave, report, or receive any kind of aid when the abuser makes sincere excuses and kind gestures in between periods of violence. He might try to convince you that you are the only one who can help him, that this time will be different, and that he does love you. The abuser may employ tricks to prevent you from seeking help and leaving them. If you think your abusive partner will start acting differently or that you can assist him to deal with his emotional and psychological issues, you are probably mistaken. Violence will continue. Only once your abuser stops blaming you, his miserable background, stress at work, his drinking, and other factors for his actions and seeks professional treatment will he be able to change.
Keep in mind that violence is a purposeful and well-thought-out action. Abusers choose who they attack; they don’t insult, threaten, or physically harm everyone who upsets them. When and where they abuse is carefully considered; abusers maintain control until no one else is present to witness their abusive behavior.